Safeguarding

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Many parents find their teenager’s behaviour challenging. Teenagers’ behaviour can be baffling, stressful, hurtful and often worrying however these common issues are an essential part of puberty and growing up.

The teenage years can be an important time of change and development for young people. As teenagers grow, they begin to develop greater independence, form stronger friendships and explore their own identity. During this time, they may experience changes in mood behaviours and emotions.

For parents and carers, this stage can sometimes feel challenging. Teenagers may test boundaries, seek more privacy, or become more influenced by their peers. However, positive relationships with supportive adults remain very important for young person’s wellbeing and development.

Please watch the video below which explains the how the teenage brain works and why young people can sometimes struggle against healthy rules and boundaries.

At Acklam Grange we take a proactive approach to ensure the safety of our young people, parents and carers however if you need further support, please contact a member of our safeguarding and Welfare Team. (Insert SG page link)  We also offer parenting support in school and have sessions running regularly – Please email safeguarding@acklamgrange.org.uk for further information.

Supporting Your Teenager

Teenagers can be greatly emotional rather than logical because of hormones and the adolescent brain. It is not always a pleasant experience for parents/carers or teens, and it can be frightening or confusing. There are many ways parents and carers can support their teenagers during this stage, including:

  • Keeping communication open and encouraging honest conversations.
  • Listening to concerns without judging and not interrupting them until they’ve finished speaking.
  • Setting clear and consistent boundaries- teens may disagree with them however know they are sign you care.
  • Do not bottle up your concerns- if you’re worried about your teen, try talking calmly and direct them to useful. information so they can research and ask their own questions using a reliable source of information.
  • Allowing them their own space and privacy.

Supporting Your Own Wellbeing as a Parent/Carer

Changes in teens behaviour, increased independence and new challenges during teen years can create pressures for parents/carers. Parenting a teenager can be exhausting and overwhelming and so it is important to look after yourself too.

  • Setting time aside for yourself for self-care and rest
  • Talking to trusted friends and family
  • Joining support groups or forums
  • Learning self-help techniques to cope with low mood and stress

Useful Support

If you need advice or support, you can contact:

Family Hubs ( Middlesbrough Council)-  Parenting support | Middlesbrough Family Hubs – 01642 579120